You may be in the stage of life when you’re still establishing your career, living in shared accommodation, or saving up to go travelling.She, on the other hand, may already be settled, financially secure, maybe even a mother. But, if you are living a different lifestyle to the person you’re dating, it will likely lead to conflict.Try to establish what you’re both looking for from the relationship in the early days, so you can be sure you’re on the same page.If having a family is important to you, then this is something to consider when dating an older woman.The much touted idea that women peak sexually in their 30s and men in their teens does not enter into it -- most of these couples are beyond both those age periods.
“Younger guys tend to be more active, have less baggage,” says Soletti, an event planner who regularly hosts dating mixers.
Tessina, Ph D, a licensed family therapist in practice in Long Beach, Calif., and author of The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again, tells Web MD.
For their part, the men like the sophistication and life success of their older mates, she explains.
Dating an older woman is quite the rage these days.
As a woman over 35, I’ve never felt more desired by men in their late 20s and early 30s than I do now—moreso even than when I was that age. Pay no attention to the ol’ elbow-jabbing, wink-wink idea that cougars* are “more likely to put out and pay for everything.” Meh, that may be a reason a naïve man attempts to score with an older lady, but it’s hardly the reason a smart man enters a relationship with one.